|"I Dont Know Who You Are" is a fictional novel
based on actual experiences of those dealing with the fall out from what is
believed to be a consensual incestual relationship.
|"How does a man
handle his wife seeing
"What if the
other man is
"Can they come
with her actions?"
"Can she be trusted?"
"Can they deal with
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|A wife and mother takes on her father, a man she hasnt seen in
forty years, as her partner in a questionable capacity. Her husband, children
and circle of friends are put to the test when they are methodically pushed
away and out of her life while they deal with the heartbreak of losing her to
someone they dont know and dont trust. They are further devastated
when she alludes to their relationship being intimate ultimately leaving her
husband to chose life or death in his suicide attempt.
This is a story
of how these friends all come together to support and love one another in an
effort to deal with this travesty and to move on from this heartbreaking
experience. They deal with Matt, her husband, working through to get on his
feet, and make a new life for his children. They help the children offering
love and support that should come from their mother. They help each other cope
with the death of a friend and the grief process that ensues. They
all deal with the woman who started the tragedy and her father as they continue
to control, harass and intimidate everyone they come into contact with be it
her husband, children, friends or neighbors.
Matt: the heartbroken husband. Join them as they try to understand and deal with this situation and
as they try to heal and move on.
Marissa: the unbelieving children.
Sophie: the devastated
Cara and Josh: the saddened yet unintimidated neighbors.
Lizzie and Dave: the fearful friends.
Grant: the hope filled friends.
Though this story is written as
fiction, it is very real. This book was written from actual experiences; Kat,
not her real name, was my friend. Many of the events and dialogues were
enhanced or fabricated for the sake of the story.
I began to keep notes
of things that were happening and conversations that we had simply because they
were so unbelievable and I wanted to be able to see the words she used and
understand the situation more fully, trying to wrap my brain around all that
was happening. Ultimately, I decided the notes that I kept could be used in
court if necessary when Matt, not his real name, divorced her. As the notes
mounted in my hard drive, and the descriptions became more and more unreal, I
realized that this was going to be more than just notes, I had to tell this
Researching Genetic Sexual Attraction on the web gave me more
information than I really wanted to know! This was a common, yet not widely
publicized occurrence. As work on the book progressed and I occasionally
checked back on the sites for information or to clarify information I had, I
found that more sites were being added about this condition. I was also
surprised, as I was watching Law and Order SVU one evening that this condition
was portrayed in their story line. (Season Seven, episode 07014) They
didnt use the term GSA, but it was apparent that was what it was.
Our saga is not over. Kat still lives with Daddy, her children
dont want to see her, and our friend is dead. It is our hope that someday
she will seek medical attention and will come to terms in her own mind with
what happened. In the mean time, we attempt to live our lives, be there for the
kids, and hope for the best.